Before you go on a date, you may want to decide what kind of date you want to have.
One way to do this is by setting an intention. What’s an intention? One of the best descriptions I have heard comes from Monica Berg, host of the Spiritually Hungry podcast. She describes...
For the last couple of months, I have been trying to implement Most Important Task (MIT) an idea popularized by Leo Babauta.
The idea, which he outlines in his post Purpose Your Day: Most Important Task (MIT), is that your MIT is the task that you most need to get done today. He goes on to say...
Most people don't wake up one morning, go into the kitchen to make a cup of coffee, and think, I need a dating coach. But, let’s imagine that you did wake up this morning and decide you needed a dating coach. Before you power up your favorite device and Google “dating...
I love Leo Babauta of Zen Habits. His newsletter is one of the few that I subscribe to. This week his topic was stillness. In it, he points out that while going on a meditation retreat is a great way to find stillness, it’s not the only way.
He challenges his readers to seek stillness...
By the time most of my clients find me, they are ready to give up on dating. They have suffered through the awkwardness of first dates, the pain of being rejected, and they have analyzed their actions and their dates' actions ad nauseam and wondered what they are doing wrong.
They are discouraged...
Recently a dating site surveyed its users and found that 88 percent would prefer to date someone who’s in therapy. This is a staggering number and it's best taken with a grain of salt.
First, it is well-documented that it can be tricky to get accurate information thru surveys. One reason...
Those of you who follow my blog know that I am not a fan of changing yourself to find a partner. I believe that embracing who you are is the surest path to finding someone who loves you for who you are.
But what if you seem to attract the same type of guy over and over? The type of guy that...
What’s the best dating app for relationships? What’s the best...
I was 63 years old and had been widowed 7 years when I met my partner, Paul. We met at a Christmas party hosted by mutual friends.
After being widowed for so many years, I was comfortable going out on my own. I wasn’t looking to date. I figured my chances of finding true love...
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