Why you keep dating the same guy over and over
Those of you who follow my blog know that I am not a fan of changing yourself to find a partner. I believe that embracing who you are is the surest path to finding someone who loves you for who you are.
But what if you seem to attract the same type of guy over and over? The type of guy that breaks your heart. Every. Single. Time. Doesn’t that mean that something is broken? That there is something that needs to be fixed?
If you find that you are recreating the same dating problem over and over with different men, there is something that can help.
Take a look at the dark side of your soul (Ack!)
We all have a dark side of our soul, that part of ourselves that we don't like and that we try to keep hidden. It’s time to go looking for yours. This is the part of yourself that fills you with shame. Something that you secretly worry is the real reason you haven’t found love.
We choose partners who agree with us
Why? Because when there is something that you don’t like about yourself, you are much more likely to end up dating someone who agrees with you.
Do you have a secret concern that you are too demanding or too needy? Or perhaps you worry that you aren’t worthy of love (that one was mine.) Whatever it is, it is likely something you heard over and over as a child or something that your first boss focused on until you learned to keep that part of yourself hidden.
Whatever it is, it has likely followed you through life and keeps popping up when you are stressed, sad, or maybe even when you’re happy enough to let your guard down.
Find a partner who loves you for you
The good news is that once you have recognized your secret shame you are on your way to disempowering it. And, more importantly, you are on your way to finding a partner who loves and accepts all of you!
Are you feeling stuck?
If you have tried everything that you can think of to find a real relationship with a great guy but still haven’t been able to find it, I can help.
My coaching practice is dedicated to ensuring that successful professional women achieve the same success in their romantic relationships that they’ve in their careers.
We all need a little help and support to make our dreams a reality. If you are ready to make your dream of finding your Mr. Right a reality, the first step is to book a free dating strategy call. On this call we’ll discuss your needs, dating priorities and how we can partner to design a customized dating strategy that will empower you to find the relationship you desire quickly and with less emotional toll.
About Me
Hi, I’m Rachel Simeone and my coaching practice is dedicated to ensuring that successful professional women, just like you, achieve the same success in their romantic relationships that they have in their careers. Through my signature coaching program, you will learn how to escape the misery of awful dates, meet better men and accelerate your ability to find a great partner.
Check out my program to learn more about how we can partner to develop your custom dating strategy to the right relationship.
To get started, schedule a free dating strategy call. On this call, we’ll identify your dating goals establish your dating style, and discuss a dating strategy that will empower you to find the relationship you desire faster and with less emotional toll.
