The Best Dating Coaches for Women in 2024

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If you've dated and dated but can't seem to find the right guy for a meaningful long-term relationship, it might be time to ask for help. While dating help can come in many forms, dating coaching is often a logical next step for busy professional women.

Dating coaches can offer guidance and support to improve self-awareness, grow confidence, and develop strategies to help you navigate the unique dating challenges faced by successful women. 

Ready to find the right dating coach for you?

If you start by googling dating coaches, you'll soon realize that there are a lot of dating coaches of us out there. To find the right one for you, start by considering qualifications, coaching style, and testimonials. Make sure you find a coach who focuses on supporting professional and executive women. Spend a few minutes reading their blog posts and ask yourself if their dating philosophy and advice align with your own.

To help find your best fit, I've curated a list of top dating coaches who specialize in helping successful professional women navigate the world of dating. Whether you're a high-powered executive, serial entrepreneur, or a new manager climbing the corporate ladder, these experts will be able to offer you a customized strategy to help you succeed in dating and love. 


Best for women who want to understand men better

 Matthew Hussey

If you’re tired of trying to figure out men on your own, Matthew Hussey may be able to help. 

As a dating expert and confidence coach for women, Matthew helps women find love life through his book Get The Guy, live seminars, and training videos.

His approach helps women to find love through advice that is honest, authentic, and practical so that they feel confident and in control of their happiness.

James Bauer

James Bauer is a relationship expert who specializes in male psychology. He is the author of several courses, including the popular His Secret Obsession and What Men Secretly Want.  He provides advice to help women better understand men's emotional needs, create stronger connections, and get their exes back.

If you believe that understanding men better is the solution to your dating woes, James Bauer may be your solution.

Best for professional women and female executives

Rachel Simeone

Rachel Simeone is on a mission to transform dating for smart, successful professional women so that they can find love faster. Instead of trying to teach her clients how to understand men better, Rachel focuses on empowering women to find a partner who suits them.

Rachel is known for partnering with her clients to develop a customized dating strategy that empowers her clients to date more efficiently, and effectively and to find their Mr. Right faster.

Rachel is a certified coach with both the Coactive Training Institute and the International Coach Federation. You can learn more about her services, get dating advice for women, and read real-life stories of successful professional women who have found love on her website.

Samantha Burns

The Millennial Love Expert, Samantha Burns, LMHC is a Relationship and Dating Coach who works with women to help them create the love lives they desire.  Samantha offers dating coaching to help you find your perfect match, relationship coaching to increase overall satisfaction with your partner, and breakup coaching to help you bounce back from a split. Samantha is also the author of Breaking Up & Bouncing Back, a book about how to survive a breakup.

Best for older women

Bobbi Palmer

Bobbi Palmer the founder of Date Like a Grownup, specializes in coaching women over 40.

She offers advice and compassion to women over 40 who are dating and looking for love. Advice that can only come from a  woman who’s been there, done that, and figured it out.

Her passion is helping her clients achieve their dreams and she has taken countless women in their 40s, 50s, and beyond from dreading dating to joyfully searching for and finding, not just a man who loves them, but the self-love that has to come first. 

 Marni Battista

Having been married for 17 years, divorced, and then dated again successfully. Marni Battista understands what dating is like for women

As a result of her journey to love, Marni felt called to create a process that helps shorten the journey for other women suffering from the inability to find fulfilling intimate relationships.

Drawing on her Master’s Degree in Education and certification as a professional dating and relationship coach, she developed her signature program, The 5 Keys to Becoming Irresistible, which you can access on her website.


Best for conscious dating

Amy Nobile

Amy takes a holistic view of who you are and who you truly want to attract. She is a part communication coach and part right-hand wing woman.

She specializes in conscious dating - recognizing who we are, what we need, and being aware of our behavioral patterns in the dating process.

Her signature program runs for 4 months during which she is available to provide dating advice on anything from texting to wardrobe suggestions and how a budding connection is going. She starts by diagnosing your dating ills, identifying who you want to attract, and how to present your personal brand.

Amy has co-authored four books and has appeared on Oprah, The Today Show, Rachael Ray, and NPR. 


Amie Leadingham

Amy’s mission is to inspire, cultivate, and empower singles to their highest potential. Her non-judgmental approach allows people to feel safe and open to communicating freely.

Once her clients have discovered the true value of who they are by having employed a newly ingrained belief system, they often attract a meaningful relationship they never thought was possible before.

She offers her signature program, Conscious Dating Programs, one-on-one coaching, group coaching, or a DIY class on how to conquer online dating and safely find love. She also is the author of  A Woman’s Handbook to Online Dating.


Best Male Dating Coaches for Women

Evan Marc Katz

Evan Marc Katz is a popular dating and relationship expert. Through his Love U course, he has been helping singles find love since 2003. His clients have fallen in love, gotten married, and started families as a result of his dating coaching services.

His approach is to help women understand men, and what they really want. His goal is to help young women reduce their dating frustration and increase their likelihood of attracting a like-minded long-term partner.

In addition to his course, Katz offers group coaching and private coaching.

Adam LoDolce

Adam LoDolce calls himself the badass women’s dating coach. Adam’s goal is to help women become more confident better understand men and find love.

His website offers tutorials, courses, and 1-on-1 coaching sessions with LoDolce. He has published books that share information on understanding men, becoming more confident, and building a solid relationship.

If you would like more dating coach recommendations, you may want to check out Dating News's Top 10 Dating Bloggers and their 10 Best Women’s Dating Coaches of 2023.


Ready to see if dating coaching is for you?

If you are ready to explore if dating coaching is for you, you and begin by setting up a free call with several of the dating experts mentioned above to see if there is a fit and if you get value out of the conversation.

If you would to set up a free call and discover how you can make your dream of finding a real relationship with a great guy a reality, book a free dating strategy call with me today. On this call we’ll discuss your dating needs, priorities, and how we can partner to design a customized dating strategy that will empower you to find the relationship you desire quickly and with less emotional toll.

About Me

Hi, I’m Rachel Simeone and my coaching practice is dedicated to ensuring that successful professional women, just like you, achieve the same success in their romantic relationships that they have in their careers. Through my signature coaching program, you will learn how to escape the misery of awful dates, meet better men, and accelerate your ability to find a great partner.


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